we just finished shlishi. these last 6 pesukim were break your teeth kind of pesukim. earlier in the day, i asked chana to review rishon (i know i was saving it for friday, but we were both sitting around). she asked to do it at 1. i said ok (it was about 12). at 10 to 1 i reminded her that we were working at 1. at 5 to 1 i reminded her. at 1 i said, let's go. she asked for 2 min.
i said, no, right now. she thought we had negotiated that she could ask for 2 min. i said only if i wasn't ready at the time she agreed to. she tried to negotiate for 2 min, but i stood firm.
she asked if instead of us doing chazara, i could just do milim. so i did that, and she didn't know most of them, but often read the phrase around it in order to give her context, so we got a decent review even though she doesn't know a bunch of the words and i am running out of zitsfleisch to keep doing chazara. i wonder how much of noach she remembers.
patar did show up a lot and she remembered it :-)
then we zipped through the rashis. they are all pretty simple. there are 9 we are doing. then break until 7:30ish. it didn't take too long to do the new pesukim, but they were tough. i think tomorrow i'll have her review all of shlishi. maybe friday she'll review sheni.
oh, and in case anyone was wondering, chana and i ran out of steam after reading 3 perakim in english of the megila. i think she's at the age where it is too long and too many details. i think what i will do is find the condensed version of the megila that i do with the pesukim cut out and read it with her. either i'll read it to her (though she is not all that auditory) or she'll read it out loud and maybe i'll translate it or we'll figure something out. stay tuned.
also, i decided, after sitting down to read the little midrash says with her again, that it had a lot of details that were boring her, and so between that and the midrashim, i'm not going to buy it.
i kind of had this fantasy that with unschooling i could just leave them lying around and my kids would just pick them up and read them like my homeschooling neighbor down the block has with her son. but i think i have to know myself and know my kids. just like i don't do science projects no matter how simple and interesting they look, and i don't do crafts, and my kids don't do computer sites (at least not the girls), i have to accept that the best method i have found that works with me and my kids is for me to directly interact with them and teach them the pshat so i can tell exactly what level they are on and how much they are ready for and exactly how to present it. there is a lot of mutual feedback going on and i have never found a substitute, which is why people try to talk to me about curricula or workbooks and i just found that there is nothing more efficient or more interesting to me and the kids except for us to do it together where i present the material in the best way i can see for them at that exact moment. i have the same thing with math; it's easier for me to write problems for them than for me to follow a book, because there are never exactly the problems to work on the level of my kid as many as i need or exactly what i think they need to be working on. so too with chumash and navi and megilla, i think it's best when i interact with them. darn, because i kind of wanted them to go off and find it themselves and do it themselves, but they really learn best by being taught. so i have to put in energy and engage them and keep it interesting.
which means when i fall down on the job, they don't learn. kind of like when they ask me questions and instead of knowing the answer and being able to explain it to them in exactly the level they need, i say, "i don't know." that's when unschooling falls down on the job. i can't be lazy about being a resource for them.